EP26: “Can We Keep Kids Catholic?” with Fr Chad VanHoose

About this Episode
Can you actually “keep” kids Catholic—or is that the wrong question entirely?

In this episode of the YDisciple Podcast, Pete and Annie are joined again by NET’s chaplain, Father Chad VanHoose, to wrestle with one of the most common—and pressure-filled—questions in ministry and parenting. Together, they unpack the heart behind the question and challenge the assumptions built into it, especially the idea that faith can be controlled, managed, or guaranteed.

Through honest conversation, they explore the tension between responsibility and surrender: doing everything you can to form young people in the faith while recognizing that their relationship with God is ultimately not yours to control. They highlight the dangers of a “formula mindset,” the importance of authentic witness, and the role of freedom in true discipleship.

Rather than focusing on “keeping” someone Catholic, the conversation shifts toward a more life-giving mission: introducing young people to the person of Jesus and inviting them into a relationship that transforms over time. This episode offers both freedom and challenge—reminding leaders and parents alike that while we play a role, God is the one who ultimately draws hearts.

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Reflection for This Week

Ask yourself:

• Where am I trying to control someone else’s faith journey instead of trusting God with it?
• Do I approach discipleship more like a formula—or a relationship?
• How am I personally growing in my own relationship with Jesus? This week, shift your focus from outcomes to presence—choose one moment to intentionally witness your faith through joy, prayer, or authentic conversation.